Jay Leno has opened up about caring for his wife Mavis as she lives with dementia.


Jay Leno has opened up about how much he enjoys caring for his wife as she lives with dementia.

In a conversation with In Depth with Graham Bensinger, the former late-night host shared what life is like these days with his wife of 45 years, Mavis.

Humour can be helpful, the comedian said of being a caregiver for someone with dementia.

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The couple have been together for 45 years. (Getty Images for Meyers Manx)

“When you get married, you sort of take a vow: ‘Will I live up to this? Or will I be like a sleazy guy if something happens to my wife, I’m out banging the cashier at the mini mart?'” he said.

“No, I didn’t. I enjoy the time with my wife. I go home, I cook dinner for her, watch TV and it’s okay.”

According to Leno, the couple does “basically what we did before, except now I have to feed her and do all those things”.

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Mavis Leno and Jay Leno
Leno says she took a vow to look after his wife when they married. (Getty)

“I like taking care of her,” he said.

“She’s a very independent woman, so I like that I’m needed.”

Leno applied for and was granted conservatorship over his wife’s estate last year.

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He told Bensinger he uses flash cards with Mavis to try to stir her memories, which has led to some funny moments.

“I’m told people with dementia forget the people they’re with. But, you know, I do pictures of the flashcards,” he said, while pretending to place a card down.

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LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - NOVEMBER 07: (L-R) Mavis Leno and Jay Leno attend 60th Anniversary at The Improv at Hollywood Improv on November 07, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Monica Schipper/Getty Images)
The former talk-show host says he uses flashcards to try and stir her memories. (Getty)

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“‘Remember? Remember?’ It’s kind of funny. I go, ‘Honey, that’s President Obama. Remember we had dinner?'” Leno said.

His wife would look at the flash card and say, “Oh, not me,” causing him to say “‘Yeah, yeah. Honey, it was you’.”

“You have to find the humour in it,” he added.

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